ADHD is a relatively common neurodevelopmental condition, affecting approximately 10% of children in the United States. There is a marked discrepancy in the apparent prevalence of ADHD in boys versus girls during childhood, with boys receiving a diagnosis roughly two to four times more often than girls. Interestingly, by adulthood, the prevalence of ADHD in women is nearly equivalent to the prevalence in men, leading researchers to question whether many girls with ADHD are simply being overlooked during childhood and instead receiving a diagnosis years later as adults. This article explores the evidence behind that diagnostic gap, and why ADHD in women is being diagnosed well into adulthood.
Key Points:
ADHD is diagnosed less often in girls than boys during childhood, but the difference narrows considerably by adulthood.
Women are more likely to present with inattentive symptoms, emotional dysregulation and internal restlessness than overt hyperactivity.
Diagnostic bias, classroom referral patterns and compensatory strategies all contribute to delayed diagnosis.
Major life transitions and hormonal changes may make previously unrecognized ADHD more apparent.
A comprehensive evaluation is necessary to distinguish ADHD from other conditions with similar symptoms.
What is Adult ADHD?
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by a persistent pattern of inattention, hyperactivity-impulsivity, or a combination of both, that interferes with daily functioning. Although several symptoms of ADHD must have been present prior to age 12 to meet the clinical threshold for a diagnosis of ADHD in adulthood, current diagnostic criteria require fewer symptoms of ADHD to be present in adults, compared to children.
Symptoms of ADHD in Adults
Symptoms of ADHD often change with age and may look quite different in adults than they do in children. Adults with ADHD don't typically climb on furniture or dart into the street, and children don't usually have to remember medical appointments, pay bills or manage a household. The following are common examples of ADHD symptoms in adults:
Inattentiveness:
forgetting important dates or deadlines, such as doctor’s appointments, paying bills on time, or work functions
frequently misplacing items needed for daily tasks, such as car keys, wallets, or smart phones
having trouble staying focused on one task until it is completed
losing track of what you are doing
getting distracted by your thoughts, sounds and other external stimuli
spacing out or losing focus during conversations at work, with friends, or at home, needing people to repeat themselves due to lack of focus
Difficulty holding information in mind, such as remembering a verification code long enough to enter it or rereading paragraphs because you lose track of what you have just read.
Hyperactivity:
a feeling of internal restlessness
inability to sit still, needing to fidget, or move around in your seat frequently
racing thoughts
Difficulty relaxing or switching off your thoughts.
Feeling compelled to stay busy.
Impulsivity:
Interrupting conversations before others have finished speaking.
Finishing other people's sentences.
Making decisions impulsively without fully considering the consequences.
Impulsive spending, eating, substance use or sexual behaviour.
Difficulty waiting your turn.
Other Executive Functioning Difficulties:
emotional dysregulation/mood swings
Knowing exactly what needs to be done, but feeling unable to get started despite wanting to complete the task.
Difficulty estimating how long tasks will take.
Frequently underestimating time required to complete projects.
Difficulty switching between tasks.
Feeling overwhelmed by tasks with multiple steps.
Chronic disorganization despite repeated attempts to become more organized.
ADHD Often Presents Differently in Women
Compared with males, females with ADHD are more likely to present predominantly with inattentive symptoms rather than overt hyperactivity or impulsivity. Females with ADHD are also more likely to experience emotional dysregulation and have higher rates of co-occurring anxiety and mood disorders.
When hyperactivity or impulsivity is present in women with ADHD, it is often expressed differently than the classic childhood stereotype. Rather than obvious physical restlessness, many women describe an internal sense of restlessness, racing thoughts, excessive talking or emotional impulsivity. These differences in presentation may contribute to ADHD being overlooked during childhood or mistaken for another condition.
Why ADHD Has Historically Been Missed in Women
Among children, ADHD is diagnosed approximately three times more often in boys than girls. By adulthood, however, that difference narrows substantially, with the male-to-female ratio falling to roughly 1.6:1. Because ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that begins in childhood—and symptoms must be present before the age of 12 for an adult diagnosis—researchers have long questioned what explains this shift in prevalence.
Early ADHD research focused primarily on boys
One possible etiology for this stems from the way ADHD studies were designed. Most of the study participants used to describe ADHD, develop diagnostic tools, and study treatment options were male. In fact, as many as 80% of study participants were male in each study, with some excluding females entirely. As a result, the clinical understanding of ADHD was largely based on how the condition presents in boys.
Diagnostic bias
This imbalance is thought to have contributed to diagnostic bias—the tendency for clinicians, teachers and even parents to recognize inattentive or hyperactive behaviours as ADHD more readily in boys than in girls. Consequently, many girls and women are first diagnosed and treated for anxiety or mood disorders before ADHD is considered. On average, females with ADHD receive their diagnosis 4 years later than males, with one large study reporting a median age of diagnosis of approximately 19 years in females compared with 14 years in males.
Boys are More Likely to be Referred for ADHD
ADHD often becomes most apparent in the classroom, where children are expected to sit still, sustain attention, stay organized, follow instructions and complete work independently. These demands place considerable strain on executive functioning skills, leading teachers to often be the first to raise concerns about ADHD.
Because boys are more likely to display overt hyperactivity, impulsivity and disruptive classroom behaviours, they are more likely to come to the attention of teachers and be referred for evaluation. Girls, on the other hand, are more likely to struggle quietly with inattention, disorganization or daydreaming without significantly disrupting the classroom, and are less likely to be referred for an evaluation.
Girls often develop different coping strategies
Another important contributor to delayed diagnosis in females is the tendency to develop compensatory strategies that offset, but do not resolve, underlying executive functioning difficulties. These strategies — sometimes referred to as masking, camouflaging, or compensation, depending on the source — include behaviors such as excessive reliance on organizational tools, over-preparation, and close observation and imitation of peers to manage social interactions. While both boys and girls with ADHD develop such strategies, the available evidence suggests that girls tend to do so earlier, more extensively, and in ways that are less likely to draw attention from teachers or parents.
Many Women Are Diagnosed After Major Life Changes
ADHD is currently understood as a condition involving impairments in executive functioning—the set of cognitive processes that support planning, organization, working memory, and self-regulation. This understanding has been informed by brain imaging studies showing associations between activity in prefrontal brain regions responsible for executive functioning and ADHD symptoms across development.
What this means for individuals with ADHD, is that their symptoms are likely to change over time, and in different environments, based not only on individual level differences in brain development, but also on environmental demands on executive functioning. Symptoms of ADHD are thought to become apparent or worsen when the demands for executive functioning exceed an individual’s capacity. That capacity is diminished in individuals with ADHD compared with those without ADHD.
Common examples in adults include the transition from high school to college, starting their first job out of high school, or possibly after a promotion into a management position. These transitions are experienced by both men and women, yet there are certain life transitions that most males do not experience. For women, ADHD symptoms may worsen, or become more apparent, during pregnancy, or postpartum, and during major fluctuations in sex hormones, such as during perimenopause or menopause.
Hormonal Influence on ADHD in Women Across the Lifespan
There has been increasing interest in understanding whether or not changes in estrogen and progesterone levels influence ADHD symptomatology in women. Multiple lines of evidence suggest that women with ADHD experience more severe symptoms during periods of declining estrogen levels, such as during the luteal phase of the menstrual cycle, postpartum, and during perimenopause and menopause.
Pre-clinical studies in animal models have independently shown that both estrogen and progesterone can modulate the availability of dopamine, one of the key neurotransmitters implicated in the etiology of ADHD. This suggests a compelling mechanism by which fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone could impact ADHD symptoms in females, however this remains an active area of research.
Complicating this question is the observation that many of the cognitive symptoms of perimenopause and menopause, such as “brain fog”, difficulty with working memory, and declining executive functioning, overlap with symptoms of ADHD. This may lead women to seek an evaluation for ADHD for the first time in their 40s or 50s. In these cases it is important to consider that cognitive symptoms may be explained by perimenopause, or ADHD, or a combination of both.
How is ADHD Diagnosed in Adults
ADHD remains a clinical diagnosis, meaning there is no single blood test or brain scan that can definitively diagnose the condition. Instead, a diagnosis is made by a qualified healthcare professional based on a comprehensive clinical evaluation. Depending on state licensing laws and professional training, this may include psychiatrists, psychologists, primary care physicians, neurologists or other clinicians with expertise in diagnosing ADHD.
A comprehensive adult ADHD evaluation typically includes:
A detailed mental health evaluation, including current symptoms and their impact on work, school, relationships and daily functioning.
An in-depth discussion of ADHD symptoms across the lifespan, with particular attention to evidence that symptoms were present during childhood, even if they were not formally recognized at the time.
A review of medical history, psychiatric history, medications and other conditions that may contribute to attention or executive functioning difficulties.
Standardized rating scales, such as the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS), Conners' Adult ADHD Rating Scales (CAARS) or the Brown Attention-Deficit Disorder Scales (BADDS), which can help support—but not establish—the diagnosis.
Whenever possible, information from a collateral informant, such as a parent, sibling or another adult who knew the individual during childhood, to help establish the presence of symptoms before age 12.
When available, observations from a spouse, partner, close friend or family member who can describe how ADHD symptoms affect current day-to-day functioning.
Because symptoms of ADHD overlap with those of many other medical and psychiatric conditions—including anxiety disorders, PTSD, depression, sleep disorders, thyroid disease, substance use disorders and the cognitive changes associated with perimenopause—a thorough evaluation is essential to arrive at the correct diagnosis and guide appropriate treatment.
Although online questionnaires can be useful screening tools, they should not be used to diagnose ADHD without a comprehensive clinical evaluation.
How is Adult ADHD Treated
In many ways ADHD in adults is treated similarly to ADHD in children. Medications can be very effective at improving executive functioning, emotional regulation, and inattentive symptoms in women with ADHD. Interestingly, treating ADHD can also improve symptoms of co-morbid anxiety and depression, even in the absence of an anti-depressant.
Some women choose not to take ADHD medications, and instead rely on the many coping mechanisms they have developed from a life-time of living with ADHD. When those coping mechanisms are no longer effective, cognitive behavioral therapy, executive functioning skills coaching, and mindfulness-based meditation can all improve symptoms of ADHD in women.
Final Thoughts
Although ADHD has traditionally been viewed as a childhood disorder affecting primarily boys, growing evidence suggests that many girls and women have historically gone unrecognized. Differences in symptom presentation, diagnostic practices, compensatory strategies and changing executive functioning demands all appear to contribute to later diagnosis in women. Greater awareness of these differences appears to have contributed to more women receiving an accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment later in life.
If longstanding difficulties with attention, organization or executive functioning are interfering with daily life, a comprehensive evaluation can help determine whether ADHD or another condition may be contributing.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can ADHD develop in adulthood?
No. ADHD is considered a neurodevelopmental condition, meaning symptoms begin during childhood. Adults who are diagnosed with ADHD typically had symptoms earlier in life that were overlooked, misattributed to another condition, or compensated for until increasing life demands made them more apparent.
Do I need to have been formally diagnosed as a child to be diagnosed with ADHD now?
No. It is possible to be diagnosed with ADHD for the first time as an adult. However, symptoms of ADHD must have been present prior to age 12 to meet diagnostic criteria for ADHD.
What if I don't have a parent or anyone who can confirm what I was like as a child?
While this makes diagnosis with ADHD as an adult more difficult, in some cases self-reported symptoms may be sufficient, particularly if supported by collateral informants who can share observations of current symptoms of ADHD in different environments (such as work, and at home).
Is ADHD being overdiagnosed in women because of social media awareness?
Social media has likely increased awareness of symptoms of ADHD in women, which may lead to more women self-diagnosing ADHD or seeking a formal diagnostic evaluation for ADHD. This does not mean that women are being over-diagnosed with ADHD. A comprehensive clinical evaluation is specifically designed to distinguish genuine ADHD from other explanations.
Can I be evaluated for ADHD if I'm already being treated for anxiety or depression?
Yes, absolutely. Having anxiety or depression does not prevent you from being diagnosed with ADHD. If you have untreated, or inadequately treated, anxiety or depression, it is sometimes useful to first treat anxiety or depression to help distinguish symptoms that overlap with ADHD. However, this is not a universal clinical guideline, and each individual case may be treated differently.
Can hormonal changes affect ADHD symptoms?
There is strong descriptive evidence that fluctuations in ADHD symptom severity coincide with fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone levels. Many women who have coped with ADHD symptoms effectively for most of their lives are unable to do so during perimenopause or menopause, leading to seeking a diagnostic evaluation for the first time in their 40s and 50s.
Should I see a child and adolescent psychiatrist or an adult psychiatrist for an ADHD evaluation?
This is a really important question to consider. Most child and adolescent psychiatrists have extensive ADHD training across the lifespan; many adult psychiatrists are well-versed in it too, especially those with specific interest or training. It's worth asking a prospective clinician about their experience with adult ADHD in women.
Megan Bowers, MD, PhD is a child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist specializing in neurodevelopmental disorders, and is the founder of Bowers Integrative Psychiatry and CEO and Medical Director of The Mind Grove TMS Center. Her work focuses on integrative approaches to mental health, combining evidence-based medication management with lifestyle and mind–body interventions.
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